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Women’s criticism is not a small thing.

betulkondukaya
2 min readMay 9, 2024

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“My man doesn’t share anything with me at all, you can’t get a word out of him with pincers. Smurnoy walks around and is silent all the time,” such phrases can often be heard from women. And often ladies are very unhappy with this behavior of their man. In their opinion, a man should share his experiences with a woman.

However, in reality this rarely happens. The thing is that it is more common for men not to bring problems up for discussion, so to speak, but, on the contrary, to look for a solution on their own. For a man, this is a completely natural choice.

It should be understood that all attempts to force a man to be frank, as a rule, lead to nothing. When he himself finds a solution that suits him, he will quite possibly tell his woman about it (the solution), and about the problem at the same time.

But there is one subtle point that women should pay attention to. The point here is that often in moments of male revelations, women have the habit of criticizing the solution that the man found. At the same time, sometimes criticism can only be a manifestation of a woman’s emotions that have accumulated while the man was silent.

In most cases, such criticism is not constructive; sometimes, without noticing it, the woman simply devalues the man’s decision. And it’s also quite possible that they might even ridicule him for taking so long to find a solution. Indeed, sometimes a man needs time in order to find a suitable solution.

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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