Why don’t all girls have orgasms?

WHY DO NOT ALL GIRLS EXPERIENCE ORGASM?

Let’s start with the reasons that can be solved in a few sessions with a sex psychologist, and end with deeper problems. 👇

❌ 1. Increased anxiety​

When a girl worries: “What do I look like during sex.” “Am I doing everything right.” “Suddenly someone will come in and I will be ashamed.” etc. and so on.

There can be a lot of thoughts, and all of them are corrected in a specialist’s office.

❌ 2. Fears .

Fear of losing control of the situation. Fear of altered consciousness (if there was an experience of a strong orgasm). And other “points” that prevent you from relaxing and having fun.

❌ 3. Negative experience parents .

As a child, you saw your parents having sex and felt disgusted or ashamed. Or maybe your mother told you that sex is needed for the pleasure of men, and the main thing for a woman is to fulfill her marital duty.

All these attitudes need to be replaced with positive ones before waiting for orgasm.

❌ 4. You caught behind masturbation .

Often occurs in adolescence. And if the parents reacted incorrectly to what they saw ( 😡 , for example, they scolded or shamed them), then not only did the physiological processes that should have started due to age not started, but also the desire for life disappeared. This story requires longer and deeper work.

❌ 5. Low self-esteem .

I have no right to have an orgasm because it is only for a select few. This situation is also more difficult to correct and takes longer. Because low self-esteem affects all areas of life. And you need to first deal with them, increase your self-esteem, and then talk about orgasm.