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Why CHILDREN don’t want to study

betulkondukaya
2 min readJan 15, 2024

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The issue of training is quite extensive.

As a parent, is it important for you that your child learns no matter what, or do you want to understand why your child has learning difficulties?

🔷 Reasons for failure:

🔹 labeling a child (incompetent, lazy, ridiculous, awkward), these are all the same social levers of pressure that parents use from the moment of birth to control their child, which firmly settle in the unconscious of children.

These labels accompany people throughout their lives, preventing them from realizing their potential and being happy (you’ve probably met people who describe themselves as lazy and awkward).

🔹 conflicts at home, when a child is in a state of stress and anxiety, in this state any person’s body works only to combat stress, so learning is difficult.

🔹 conflicts at school (peers) their environment is very important for children, it is important for children to be accepted by their peers, to take their place in their hierarchy, to be significant.

In adolescence, learning can fade into the background, where the dominant role is played by communication, establishing oneself in one’s environment, rehearsing adult life, and this is an important stage on which the position of the future adult depends.

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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