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What to do in a crisis of marital relations. Start
“I feel bad, my husband is moving away, doesn’t pay attention to me, it seems to me that he’s even avoiding me… We’ve been married for two years now, but this is the first time this has happened to us… I’m afraid that I’m losing my husband, but I don’t want that…. Help!”
The woman suffers, seeing changes for the worse in her relationship with her husband… There are no children yet.
Why can a relationship take a 180 degree turn some time after marriage?
Shall we think together? Let’s use an example.
A man and a woman who enter into marriage with the intention of treating it as a unity of obligations of both regarding the way of life and with the intention of making their partner happy, as a union of psychologically mature and sane people, in most cases are “doomed” to a happy marriage.
They have everything to be happy. People love, support, decide together, want happiness for others…
And such couples really do well, even very well together…
But suddenly something happens, happens — and everything changes exactly the opposite, and life becomes dull, gray, hateful…
Is divorce a panacea for marital problems?
Is it really all of a sudden?
☺ A certain order has developed in the family of Mark and Rita. Rita returns home from work earlier, manages to run into the store to buy the essentials ( she and…