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Unwives, or let’s call a spade a spade
…So, today we will talk about those wives whose passports have a stamp, or they have such a large marriage certificate (because not every country puts a stamp), and it seems that life has worked out, and even children are on the dad similar… and even the house may be full (or not full, but it looks like everything is ok…) — but the feeling is that you were fucked, fooled and in general — your life was stolen…
…And it all started much earlier, when you wanted to get married…For various reasons…Some — for this particular guy, and for some — just to get married…
…The reasons for marriage are jealousy, envy, fear, addiction, unplanned pregnancy, the desire to prove to your ex that you are in demand… Anything, but not love (although some even begin to believe that it is love, but with the closest consideration after all — fear, etc… Moreover, the fear of being left alone is a very common occurrence)… Getting married, and not creating a relationship… Sometimes — for a completely unfamiliar person…
…And so, you sit, sort of, as a wife, but as a wife she doesn’t use you from you…Sometimes — as a housekeeper and a cook and a teacher for children…Or even a housekeeper and a nanny with all this staff, because it’s more convenient…
You very rarely spend time together, at best it’s time with the children… He’s not interested in your interests, your life, your friends and family… This is all unnecessary, he’s not interested… That’s what he says — I’m not interested all this, leave…