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The man takes his gifts. Why!?
??? What motivates a man if, when leaving a woman, he takes away, among other things, the underwear that he bought for her, even the sex toys that he bought. In general, it takes away the smallest things. Not to mention the damage to home appliances, which he does not need in life, but his children need for their studies. Relationships are very difficult, including physical violence.
— This is revenge, the ordinary revenge of an offended person who will do anything to hurt you. All his actions are aimed at only one thing, so that you understand this (his rightness), repent and return to him. His departure is rather a demonstrative step, such a tough manipulation designed to return you under his control. To do this, he will use all means — gifts that he gave you, joint real estate, if this does not work out, he will begin to put pressure through the children.
Thus, he receives what he needs most — attention. All his actions are aimed precisely at this. We can say that he “knocks out” attention to himself.
In fact, he is a “scary” person, primarily because he himself does not understand what is happening and is sincerely confident in his rightness and in the legitimacy of his actions.
The origins of this behavior were laid in him by his parents, he began to manipulate them, they, not…