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Should I leave or stay?
Someone leaves a relationship, choosing passion and sex, sometimes leaving three children.
And some people want stability and security, loving with all their soul another person on the side, but living with someone they don’t love and leading a double life. Everyone has their own criteria for choosing whether to leave or stay.
Moreover, these priorities may change at different periods of time.
It is worth noting here “Never swear.” We are all human and sometimes we don’t know ourselves until we come face to face with a person who can change our whole lives.
Moral and ethical standards, of course, exist, but they often fail in a person’s desire to be happy.
And the more satisfied desires a couple has on all fronts, the stronger the relationship. When you are happy with sex with your partner and have a heart-to-heart talk, you can go and relax without quarreling, but on the contrary, be able to share the joy of another and be nourished yourself. Be integral and respect the interests of your partner. If in some area there is an acute lack of satisfaction of the needs of one of the partners, then the relationship may be at risk.
For some, the material aspect is important, for others the spiritual, emotional, or on all three fronts, but evenly. Someone is looking for the ideal, but here there is a risk of being left alone, since we are all not ideal by nature. And the ability to sensibly assess your desires and the capabilities of your partner, at…