Resentment towards mother

A lot depends on the mother. The future life of a person, his self-determination, and perception of the world around him depends on what basis it has laid.

The formation of the psyche and health, especially in the first years of life, directly depends on the condition of the mother. As the mother changes, so does the child. For example, the development of psycho-emotional intelligence and creative thinking is directly dependent on the ability to communicate with the mother.

Why is it important? Love and compassion for another person, animals, sympathy, empathy, allows people to live normally in the world without anxiety and stress. If there are certain developmental problems, injuries, or delayed psychosexual development, a person is not able to switch attention from himself to other people. This gives rise to anxiety and fears, including the fear of death. Only empathy and compassion for another person will help get rid of this nightmare.

But often we demand from others exactly what they do not have. And it’s strange to be offended by others because this is exactly what they didn’t give us.

Where does the resentment towards the mother come from?

Women often come to a psychologist and tell heartbreaking stories about their relationship with their mother. Experts hear from clients that the person closest to them beat, abandoned, neglected, insulted, humiliated, put pressure on, ignored, intimidated. Sometimes people only realize at the age of 40 that their mother…