Receivers — mother’s warm hands… (from the Familyology series)

Dedicated to understanding how necessary they are for each of us — the living on this planet!

Yes, I mean the living, and not the living (not aware) — what is happening? And what happens is that you didn’t receive warm, hugging mother’s arms in early childhood — you will simply live, experiencing the need for codependency, the need to come into contact with a significant adult!… There is a need to have — a relationship in which you hope to receive acceptance and unconditional Love!

Because we feel and understand ourselves alive when we know how to hear and listen to ourselves! Your desires, your feelings, your fears, your cells — if you want! The body is a highly developed product of evolution, definitely worthy of our attention! Do you agree?! He has his own needs, the Soul has his own, the Spirit has his own, and the psyche is the “servant of three masters”!…

Until one and a half years old, the mother, with her presence, creates the so-called “primary cocoon”. She holds me in her arms — and I learn to “control myself”, she calms me down — and I learn to “calm myself down”, she accepts my desires — and I “accept my desires”! The main thing is when growing up occurs in contact! When there is an adult nearby — a “mirror” in which “I” can recognize myself!

And all this — it would be nice not to ruin it! Next, the child really needs the accepting, understanding hands of his mother! Let me give you an example of “very significant…