People without intimacy experience

PEOPLE WITHOUT INTENSITY EXPERIENCE | THE POSSIBILITY OF HEALING

There are people who, due to family dynamics or circumstances, have never had the experience of real human intimacy. Warm and trusting relationships from heart to heart. The reasons for this may vary. For example, in a family, intimacy is simply not accepted and no one knows how to build close and warm relationships with each other and with children. Or circumstances separate the child from people who can give him this experience.

People without experience of intimacy cannot trust anyone. They are locked in their mistrust and feelings of loneliness. Without the experience of empathy and deep contact. The feeling of loneliness may not be fully conscious, because they simply have no other experience, and this makes it seem that this is how it should be and this is how it is for everyone.

Such people can be very strong and very smart, they can be remarkably good at surviving and building various relationships, but they can never fully trust.

They can also be weak or sacrificial, they can help and receive help, and sometimes even ask for it. But they can never fully trust.

They suppress and push their need for intimacy deeper inside themselves and live like that.

They don’t know any other way.

And if they don’t even want to admit the thought that it could be different, that it happens differently, and that if they did not receive the experience of intimacy with their adults when they were small, then this does not mean at all that this cannot be obtained at all… (exactly possible) If they…