Parting. Attachment to the future.

When the path changes, plans change!

When plans change, the path changes!

*The seventh article on the topic “Breakup — Parting. How to comfortably end a relationship.” Previous publications 1 2 3 4 5 6 7

At the stage of communication, we like to be together more and more often, an emotional and physical attachment is formed, the need for approval, support appears, someone has a desire to always be close. Live together, have a common life, and/or common leisure time. We make plans and dream, thereby forming an “attachment to the future.”

When a sudden breakup occurs, our mind desperately begins to cling to these plans. And most often, it is more difficult to let go of the dreams that appeared in life together with this person, which seem possible only with them…

However, this is only an emotionally charged belief. Yes, something can only be brought into reality with this person. And if you start to rationally analyze your dreams and fantasies, then most of them are possible without the person you broke up with. And some of it can definitely be accomplished even better without this person.

This affection matters when you are building your future together, when you are ready to go into this future together. When the path changes, it is logical to change plans. When plans change, the path changes!