Mother didn’t raise the eagle for you

“I met a guy. Such a good guy. Hardworking, handsome, smart. As they say, everything is with him. I fell in love almost immediately, I didn’t even resist. Two months passed, and he and I decided that it was time to start living together. Another month has passed. He introduces me to his mother. They came to her, and my heart was in my heels. During the feast, my mother asked him about his other girlfriends, ex-girlfriends, and with such gusto that I clearly felt transparent. She freaked out, got up and left. A young man arrived and said that I was absolutely ungrateful and ill-mannered. And it was in vain that he contacted me. He kicked me out of the apartment the next day. I’m shocked. Love disappeared as if by hand.”

This is not an isolated case, and you are not the only one who has become a “victim” of a love story with a man who blindly honors his mother and allows her any actions that she, in her opinion, considers adequate. In fact, they are both wrong, and this is obvious.

Unambiguous dialogues between your ex and your failed mother-in-law cause deep indignation. It is difficult to say why they unanimously believe that discussing issues about exes in the presence of current ones is normal. Perhaps, in this way, mother and son decided to carefully “drain” you. Or maybe such dialogues are generally generally accepted points for discussion, which for reasonable reasons do not cause negativity in them. The third option is simple tactlessness and disrespect towards you.