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Man by destiny

betulkondukaya
2 min readJun 9, 2024

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Nowadays the word “my man” has become very fashionable. A kind of fateful word — a person by fate. Who is this anyway? Let’s figure it out.

“According to fate,” you may have a large number of such people. Many people think that “my man” is walking around the planet. One and only, which is intended only for me and no one else. But it is not so. There are actually a large number of “your people” who suit you and are compatible with you. You need to learn to find them in your space.

My person is someone who suits you according to certain criteria and parameters. Someone who is compatible with you and with whom you are compatible. And there may be many of these on the planet. Therefore, the world did not converge on one single person (dedicated to the sufferers one by one). And not butterflies in the stomach, sparkling emotions, an explosion of feelings. This is more of a passion and emotion thing.

So how can you determine at an early stage of relationship development that a person is yours?

Real interaction

All body movements in relation to each other are reciprocal and occur easily. No one is forcing anyone, no one is fishing (now I’ll manipulate him so that he calls me; I’ll make her “suffer” and move away from her to see her reaction to me). No, that won’t do. Actions taken towards each other are reciprocal, coming from real interest and respect for the personality of the partner.

Psychological compatibility

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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