Is sex relaxation?

Do you think sex is work or leisure?

Recently I received the following question: “Is sex relaxation”? And I seriously thought about it. Intimate intimacy (if we are talking about quality) presupposes mutual satisfaction of partners. And in order to satisfy your partner, you need to know what he likes. And this, in turn, requires a certain degree of intimacy between people. When this very closeness exists, sex, as a rule, brings pleasure to both.

However, I wouldn’t compare sex to relaxation. These are completely different categories. I am of the opinion that intimacy between two people is always communication and emotional contact. If these aspects are missing, sex can really feel like hard work. Labor with a lot of moments that need to be endured and waited out.

“I once had a young man who had no experience of sexual relations. He didn’t know how to do anything at all, he behaved terribly clumsily and awkwardly in bed. At first it was even exciting, but very soon it began to seriously anger me. Therefore, for me, each of our sexual intimacy was hard work, in which I had to pretend to be someone other than who I really am,” says Irina

In sex, it is very important to establish an emotional connection with your partner, which will be the key to a quality intimate life.

How to form an emotional connection with your partner?

First, it is important to be willing to work on the relationship. This is the most important condition that will allow you to…