Is anal and oral sex normal?

Is it normal for a woman to have oral or anal sex? Doesn’t this indicate her unhealthy promiscuity?

This is exactly the question I received from one of my subscribers. The woman was wondering if she would look promiscuous and vulgar in front of her loved one and herself if she engaged in oral or anal sex? The topic is very multifaceted and there cannot be a clear answer here.

The fact is that sex is voluntary. Everything that happens between two people in bed is aimed at mutual pleasure and buzz. And the highest quality sex is possible only if people are open to their desires and can sincerely share them with their loved one.

In sex, as a subject of pleasure, there are no categories of “normal” or “abnormal”. But if a person is guided precisely by them, he deprives himself not only of pleasure, but also of freedom of expression. Trying to adjust our own preferences in bed to a general framework (invented by someone else), we ignore our needs and desires. We relegate ourselves to the background by deciding to be acceptable, comfortable, decent and comfortable. And not even for the partner, but for…society!

Sounds absurd, right? In reality, this is true. In my opinion, the only rule that applies between two people in bed is “Safety and mutual pleasure.” All.

I often hear that women try to convince themselves that they love oral and anal caresses. If you really like it, there are no problems, do it for your health. But if you force yourself to do this for the…