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I want a relationship, but there isn’t one. What to do?

betulkondukaya
3 min readJun 24, 2024

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✔ Fine would figure out , what kind of relationship do you want ? Relationships come in many forms. Friendly, sexual with one partner or with different partners, etc. Relationships with living together and living together or everything separately, marriage, etc. That is, decide what form of relationship you need.

✔ Allow to myself these relationship . Here speech O that​​ I myself I know And That’s why I proceed from their true needs — what exactly do I want to get in this relationship, what do I expect . Communication, intimacy, just sex, spending time together, etc. Do I have the right to have these needs met in a relationship? Can I just look for a sexual partner or will this mean that I am an easily accessible woman? Or I want intimacy, friendship with another, but I have so many fears about this intimacy and even with myself (to recognize and accept myself, to discover something not very pleasant in myself, to admit it, to withstand), that this can also stop me, to keep me from entering into a relationship. It would be good to work with this.

Be active in the search . All methods are good — dating sites, places where people spend time, relax or engage in hobbies. Now there are many communities, by joining which you can find people of similar interests, as well as for further communication. As a result of your activity, a person will appear, and maybe not even one, and then after some time you will understand what exactly can be done with this person and whether it matches your…

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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