I strive to do everything at “5”

Are you familiar with the concept of “excellent student syndrome”? Surely you have heard, but did not go into its content.

There are people who, even after graduating from school, do not stop pursuing an “A” grade throughout their lives. And if you strive to do everything perfectly and receive “songs of praise” for it, know that you are the direct owner of this “title”.

Let’s take a closer look at its main features:

✔ Hyper-responsible And perfect V affairs . If before person delivered task — He will “breaking V flatbread” , iso everyone their strength try execute exercise on Great . Evade or do This bad for him disaster like . Yes What there disaster — such thoughts even Not visit his head

✔ Painful transfers failures . Because What feeling acute shame to him familiar With childhood , and loss For him — This How mockery or condemnation

✔ Anxious And dependent from someone else’s opinions . Reason these features is unstable self-esteem : praised — self-esteem “took off before heaven” , scolded — “fell below plinth” . Nothing So Not motivates this person : neither myself process labor or result activities like wish to distinguish oneself , to stand out . That’s why basic his pursuit — earn money praise

Where does this syndrome appear in a person?

Of course, like any other complexes, it comes from childhood. Often such a person had equally hyper-responsible, and therefore controlling, parents, striving to…