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I resign from my leadership position
A girl, let’s call her Dasha, came to me and told me the following story:
“In any company I work for, I grow to a certain position, but I never agree to the position of manager that is offered to me, I move to another company and start everything from scratch there. It’s like I’m running away from a promotion. Objectively, I can really handle a leadership position. But psychologically something is constantly bothering me… I want to figure out what is stopping me from accepting a new professional rank…”
In the image of the arrangement:
Dasha does not want to look at the goal — the position of a leader.
The position of a leader awaits those who can match: “I see Dasha, she doesn’t match me yet. I’m big and she’s small. She needs to at least become bigger and fill up with energy. Otherwise, she will dangle inside me like the smallest nesting doll in the largest one. And this is a discrepancy.”
So, what is the essence of our work today — to pump you up Dasha with resources so that you correspond to the position of a leader.
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After additional tests, we found a belief that, like a barrier, blocks Dasha’s path, and the author-creator of this belief in Dasha’s head. It turned out to be one of Dasha’s ex-men, with whom she had a very…
