I don’t want to do it myself! They owe me.

- I don’t want to do it myself! Don’t want! I find it difficult! I’m tired! I can not! I don’t want it to be difficult for me, everything connected with the word itself is difficult for me.

- You must. They owe me! Give me!

Sometimes, as if putting a knife to the throat, one demands from the other. Shifting the responsibility that I am supposedly weaker.

It comes from the inner cry of an invisible, helpless, hurt, small child. “I don’t want to take care of myself, provide support for myself.” “I didn’t get this from my mother, they didn’t give it to me, I’m still waiting.” “I’m waiting for them to bring me food, buy me something beautiful, give me money, pet me, feel sorry for me and do what I need and do everything for me.”

There is a childish part in each of us. There are those in whom it hides because it had no expression and was not accepted in the parental family. There are those who, with their inner capricious child who has not received love and acceptance, are able to be the first to present their childhood claims.

If our needs are not satisfied by our friends, partners, colleagues or children, then there may be resentment, screaming, complaints or lifelong fatigue. It’s as if no one wants to take care of me, and at the same time there is an increased vulnerability and lack of understanding of “Why?”

A small person can be capricious, demand, be offended, manifest himself in childhood, or an adult falls…