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I can’t decide to change.
What should I do if I want to change my life, but I can’t decide to make these changes?
Often we are faced with the fact that we are tired of our life. Moreover, we can clearly imagine exactly how we want to live. However, on this path we face another test — the fear of change. Today I will share with you working methods that will help you face your new life without panic.
First, answer yourself the question, do you really want what you are striving for? Are these really your needs, and not those imposed by society, parents, friends, social networks? Sometimes it can be difficult for us to distinguish our needs from those imposed.
“I kept thinking that I wanted to be a mother of three children. But just recently I realized that this is not my desire at all, but the desire of my husband. I dream of having one child and continuing my career,” says Evgenia.
Once you are convinced that the desire belongs to you, it’s time to take action!
Imagine that you already have this. Visualize for yourself the life you are trying to decide on at the moment. Think about what sensations you will have, how you will feel in your new life?
Set yourself a goal. An abstract goal like “I want to be rich and happy” is unlikely to be realized. And the point here is not that a person is not able to achieve financial well-being and satisfy his needs. Simply vague goals lead us to failure, no matter how real they may be. Therefore, I recommend that you clearly…