How to understand a child? Basic principles of education

In this article, I tried to highlight the basic rules of upbringing that help to understand your child and which every parent should know and apply in their educational practice.

Many years of experience working with parent-child relationships provide the basis for raising these rules to the rank of postulates.

Print, write down, “carve”, “hollow out”, take screenshots, hang them on the refrigerator, but so that the next time you try to take it out on your child again, they will remind you of what children say and think about their parents, and about what consequences they can expect:

✓ “Me Not love ! “ — So thinks baby , on whom constantly shouting . Yours facial expressions , tone , behavior are more eloquent any words AND how more often parents get irritated , criticize And pull back him , the faster child comes To conclusion O dislike parents To to yourself .

✓ “I Not I obey , I get angry , I get upset when with me wrong apply ! “ . Exactly wrong appeal With child causes at him unconscious anger , aggression And disobedience .

✓ Consequences “unhealthy relations” V family — This “problematic” , “difficult” , “complexed” , “downtrodden” or “unfortunate” children . Important understand that For any baby conflict between parents — This stress , and child is worried various feelings , often doing the conclusion is that argument between parents happened exactly By his guilt .