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How can I change after 35 years to find a normal man? Step by step plan.

betulkondukaya
4 min readApr 29, 2024

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Hello, friends.

After the age of 35, changes occur within the psyche. It happens that by this age a woman gets divorced or is seriously thinking about divorce.

Why is 35 years old a favorable time for a woman to build her life in a new way?

There is experience from previous relationships. There is an understanding of what you definitely don’t want in the next relationship. And at the same time, there is a fear that the other man will be like the ex-husband, and a new marriage will lead to the same results of dissatisfaction and a new divorce.

  • Fear that any new relationship will not bring anything good.
  • Feeling disappointed in yourself and in the men around you.
  • Sometimes there is intense anger towards the ex-husband, and other men seem to be the same.
  • All the men around look unreliable and destructive to building long-term relationships with.
  • There are cases when a woman enters into a new relationship and begins to feel that the new man is not suitable for a serious relationship, even if she cannot understand for herself why she comes to such internal conclusions.

When fear envelops you from different sides, a woman usually comes to one of 3 conclusions:

  • I won’t be in a serious relationship with anyone anymore because it’s still unreliable and will only lead me…

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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