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Hold on tight to the steering wheel, driver.
“My wife has been asking me to unlearn my license for two years. And I’m afraid for her. I’m worried about getting into trouble somewhere. Or someone will kill her. As soon as the question about driving school comes up, I start shaking. I explain to her that this is dangerous and at any moment I will take her where she needs to go. Conflict upon conflict, as she does not shut up about it for a minute.”
What is the problem if your woman learns the art of driving and stands on par with you as a driver? Driving a car is a dream not only for men, but also for women. Mastering the skill of driving a vehicle is a completely healthy initiative. Why are you trying with all your might to prevent this?
Everyone has to meet their death. And it won’t necessarily be while driving. And your wife doesn’t have to be the driver. Life is complicated. No one knows how much everyone is allotted and how and under what circumstances they will have to leave this world. The same wording/interpretation applies if you are worried that your spouse will be injured.
There is no need to guess and predict. You should live in the real world. Forethought is good. But is it worth using it to justify your fears for the future of your wife? Then it’s easier to rewind it with polystyrene foam, foam rubber and hide it far away behind a high 5-meter fence.
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