Hear me!

Many of us have faced a situation when it seemed that we did not understand, did not hear… Surely you also heard the words “you don’t understand me”, “you don’t hear me”, “hear me” addressed to you.

Yes, sometimes we don’t hear everything . We do not know how to listen and hear. Because of this, we so often experience a feeling of loneliness… Relationships don’t work out. In a couple, in a family, with family, friends and even with people we barely know! And also the age of the Internet.. Sometimes people don’t read carefully and write angry comments. Although the essence of the message was not caught…

What is important to hear another? Here I’m talking more about live communication.

Sometimes it’s important to stop and just listen. It is to listen silently in order to hear. Without interrupting or saying that you already understand everything… You may only think that you understand. It’s like you can read the same book several times and each time you will hear new accents, intonations and meanings. That’s why sometimes you just have to listen . Don’t finish the other person’s sentences, don’t think things through, and don’t just wait out your interlocutor’s speech with thoughts of “when will you finish.” And just listen. To hear.

Has it ever happened to you… that when talking to a person in the same language, it seemed to you that you were speaking different ones? In my opinion, this is a classic. This has happened to many people. And in essence it is so… And it’s not only about different types of communication and terminology, but also about different “thinking apparatuses”. The…