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Fear of interviewing through the eyes of HR, psychologist
Many have gone through a state of fear before a significant event, an interview with a Dream company or for a position that they dreamed about or wanted. It happens that a person does not even come to an interview, although he really wants to, due to various fears and phobias. It’s not scary and can be overcome, believe me.
And now a little about anxiety. Moderate personal anxiety is the best assistant in work. But the trouble is that at the same time it is also the worst assistant in finding a good, highly paid position. Those who are afraid to go for an interview often miss opportunities by not showing their best side. Strong anxiety before an interview interferes with the naturalness and spontaneity of answers, a person’s thoughts are confused and therefore even simple questions cause panic and a state of stupor. And even panic attacks occur. As a result, the job goes to another candidate. All of this can be worked with. The main thing is to realize that you have the right to any of your feelings.
To overcome fear of an interview, it is important to understand its causes. But it is advisable to realize your personal reasons — they may vary from person to person.
And believe me, where there is resistance, you don’t want to go there, your powerful resource is hidden there!
Don’t forget that an interview is a conversation between two living people. It will contain ordinary emotions, a desire to understand the interlocutor and attempts to…