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Early childhood experience. Forming a sense of security.

betulkondukaya
3 min readJan 11, 2024

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Early childhood experience… Why is it so important? Why do psychologists so often turn to past experience, the experience of child-parent relationships?

In this article I want to talk about parental figures and their influence on the formation of a sense of security, about how early childhood images of parents influence our future lives.

First of all, it is worth saying that the internal figures of mother and father are a kind of photograph, our childhood perception.
❗ It Maybe differ from real parents And relations With them V reality A child’s perception, of course, differs from an adult’s perception of the world.


Working in depth therapy, I always turn to the topic of parent-child relationships; it affects many aspects of our lives:

✔️ parents , their phrases , addresses , form early children’s scenarios that are being implemented in adult life Often to find roots such script , necessary address To memories early childhood , conditions conception And appearance child on light .

✔️ emotional experience is fixed And becomes basis For behavior And reactions in adult life

✔️ attitude To yourself

in basis self-esteem , self-perception lie estimates others of people . First mirror , in which We look — this is eyes our loved ones IN force features…

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