Do not put salt on my wound

“Lately I stopped understanding my friend. I recently broke up with my boyfriend completely, and she is just itching about him. I can’t say that these conversations really hurt and I’m suffering unimaginably. Most likely, this topic is already noticeably starting to irritate and enrage me. And, no matter how or what I tell her, whether in the forehead or on the forehead. It’s all the same. Slavik, yes Slavik. At least bring them together so she can calm down. What should I do and in what language should I explain to her so that it is as painless and intelligible as possible?”

Yes, sometimes our close friends and relatives do not quite understand that they are not very good at supporting us, starting conversations about sensational and painful events for us. Therefore, in order to avoid uninteresting conversations, it is important to explain to such “helpers” in time that in this way you will not be able to be distracted from your emotional worries about love losses.

1. If there is still a chance that you will get it right the first time, try to gently hint or directly say that such discussions do not bother you much, and you would not want to be distracted by such questions. At the same time, try not to get into this kind of conversation yourself.

2. Avoid any attempts to talk about topics that you don’t like. Learn to move smoothly to other discussions that will not bring you pain and suffering. And for one thing, watch how your various methods of prohibiting talking about your ex will affect her mood. Perhaps…