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Anti-Top 5 for your sexuality

betulkondukaya
2 min readMay 3, 2024

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1. Be patient, remain silent and pretend that everything is fine. If you imitate orgasm and the pleasure of intimacy, your partner will never guess that you need to do anything differently. Yes, and admitting to deception is becoming more difficult every time. If you have been acting out delight for 20 years, is it possible to tell the truth without offending?

2. Avoid any questions from your partner and attempts to talk about what is happening in your bed. Answers: “And so it’s normal” (when it’s clear from everything that it’s not normal). “I don’t know”, “Think for yourself” discourage asking and trying new things. A couple of such under-conversations and rest assured he will find someone more talkative than you.

3. Give all responsibility for your pleasure to your partner. Believe that he should open you up, satisfy you and, in general, know better how to make you feel good. This is the same thing as lying like a “log” and not even moving towards your orgasm. The better you know your body, the more pleasure it can give you. No one else is as interested in revealing his sensuality as you are.

4. Consider yourself fully responsible for your dissatisfaction. Believe that you are an unsuccessful, worthless woman if you do not enjoy intimacy. Sex couples game. And if one sucks, both lose. Does your partner know how to make you feel good? Does he? Is there a normal friendly atmosphere in your couple or conflict on conflict? Recently, a client said that when she feels uncomfortable during foreplay, she ends it…

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Keep your self-talk positive and loving, because thought comes before words.

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