About aggression, projection and the picture of the world

Continuing the theme of aggression.

Following what was said above, it is worth pointing out that this very process of awareness of aggression has its pitfalls. More precisely, I will tell you about one main pitfall, which concerns how a person lived all this time. You live like this, you don’t even notice how much you despise everyone, for example. I have developed a clear system for identifying “friend or foe.” The insider is me, and the strangers are everyone else. Well, it’s not like that, of course, in an exaggerated way, let’s say, these intonations and these words UNIQUELY indicate that you are criticized and despised. And you’re fine with that. Well, it’s familiar and understandable. Everything is in its place. Then, as a friend, you decided to go to therapy, and the insidious psychotherapist will catch you once, twice, three times, you will observe, that means, together with him, how not only do you recognize aggression where there is none, but also no, no, and kick anyone, including the therapist. And you wonder. What if all this time you weren’t seeing reality at all, but something of your own? What if all these people who feared, accused and avoided you were right somewhere, and you can’t even understand where exactly? This can be very scary. It may seem that the cuckoo is slowly starting to fly away. Because the usual bonds on which the world stood suddenly begin to fall apart.

That is, the problem here is not only in aggression itself, which is slowly beginning to seep into…