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11 mistakes during divorce that greatly ruin your life

betulkondukaya
3 min readApr 10, 2024

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People themselves change, circumstances change, motives and priorities change. People understand that they are no longer on the same path together. And the couple has to go through a divorce. Not everyone goes through this process easily and smoothly.

The partners themselves make many mistakes, which further complicate the situation and contribute to the fact that a person is forced to constantly return to the unpleasant past.

Here are the mistakes many couples make.

1) Delay the process

For example, putting off resolving issues related to property until later.

If everything has already been decided, then what is the point of delaying this process? Put off until later those actions that you can take now.

Of course, everything will not settle down. But by delaying the process, people leave themselves in this past and create additional problems for themselves.

2) Dissolve in your grief for a long time

It’s one thing to express negative emotions and grieve from the heart. It’s another thing to stay in this state for months or even years and do nothing to get yourself out of depression.

Self-discipline is needed. And in some cases, the help of specialists.

3) Involve children in sorting out relationships

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